The Power of Cross-Sales: How to Grow Relationships Without Being “Salesy”
Cross-sales aren’t about selling products. They’re about becoming a trusted advisor customers rely on for guidance, value, and long-term financial success.
I believe that people are happy to pay more for someone who provides a unique benefit that creates a substantial ROI value to them. I want that someone to be you.
In this episode, I’ll show you how to win all the business of your prospects without them ever asking about rate or fees. REALLY. I know it sounds crazy. But in our seminars, people tell me all the time that they’re now averaging 7–8 cross-sales when they never had more than two in their lives. If they can do it, your people can too.
If you’re the kind of leader:
There are a few challenges to getting paid more for your unique selling propositions—those things that make you worth more:
Seems that almost every bank complains about these same three issues.
I’m now going to give you four steps to help you get your USPs across to prospects the most effective way so you can improve your cross-sales and get paid more within 30 days.
Step 1: Stop blaming your head of retail. It’s not their fault. Without the right support and tools, you’ve set them up to fail. If you fire and replace, you’ll just have a “Groundhog Day” situation where you just keep setting up the next person to fail.
Step 2: START by first nailing the unique selling propositions—you want a whole bunch, and they must be good. Selling a trip to the Caribbean is easy if you’re the only provider who has down comforters on cushy beds and your competition has tents with mats, right?
Don’t even start sales training until you have at least 20–30 great basic USPs. If you haven’t started on these, get a bunch of your executives to one of my seminars and you’ll walk away with plenty. If you have done them but they aren’t working, bring them along with that same team so we can polish that stone to make sure you have USPs that work.
Please don’t spend hundreds of thousands on branding and make that expensive error that ends up giving you the one USP I listed already. Instead, bring your team for two days to our seminars and you’ll get this solved once and for all. I LOVE helping banks get this part nailed because it is so important to feel the pride of knowing you are always the best choice.
Step 3: Once you have your USPs in hand, know that people buy very scientifically, and you must follow the right steps in the right order in the sales system. Now, unlike most sales training involving “rote questions,” your people need to learn how to use good reasoning skills to ask the exact right positioning questions at the right time.
The positioning questions come right before the recommendations start because they give the prospect the chance to sell you on why they need you, instead of you selling them. Ah, you’re back in the “professional expert” status instead of the vendor status. You can feel the pride of knowing you are adding great value.
Step 4: The refinement process begins. Teaching your team members to be elegant about knowing which positioning questions to use takes repetition of learning. Use blended learning comprised of virtual learning, drills, effective seminars with a process proven to double and triple cross-sales within a year, and on-site training, mixed with increasing accountability. Making sure the exact right steps happen at the right time is the answer.
Although I’ve had personal bankers who never had more than two cross-sales who then attended our seminars and had 13 the very next day at work, that isn’t the norm. Most need a tremendous amount of ongoing repetition of learning to move from 2–5 cross-sales, then to seven and then beyond.
Once you reach those heights, you want those numbers to stay up, so education must happen from now to the day your people retire to ensure that cross-sales numbers stays over 6–7. Repetition is the law of learning.
Here’s a quick rundown to reinforce these concepts:
1) Stop blaming your head of retail when you haven’t set him or her up to win.
2) Get your special positioning concepts in place with at least 20–30 USPs.
3) Put the positioning questions in the right stage of the sales process and build a system to make sure your people don’t deviate from what works scientifically.
4) Build the ongoing advancement and refinement process.
By doing these steps, you can command such respect in your market that your people will never have to match a rate again. They should easily cross-sell more products and services consistently, averaging 6–7 within a year or two.
Along the way they’ll build faith in themselves that they are masterful at what they do. They deserve the confidence gained from doing meaningful work and truly earning the trust of their customers.
In the next episode, I’ll show you how to build a system with the right order and the right interconnectedness of visibility, accountability and motivation to keep cross-sales metrics moving up consistently. Stay tuned.
Cross-sales aren’t about selling products. They’re about becoming a trusted advisor customers rely on for guidance, value, and long-term financial success.
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